My Male gay friends say to avoid ear jewelry that sparkle especially gemstones, otherwise simple studs in gold or platinum are fine. Also sturdy Mens rings are very masculine.Real men, really shouldn't wear a lot of jewelry, this from both my Hetero Male friends and Gay Male friends, mind you my male friends are mature grown ups, not wannabe teenagers with no fashion sense.cheers babe!Otherwise, if you want to be a Gangsta Hip Hop Wannabe, then knock youself out, with the heavy braid gold chains and fat rings with the glittery stones.