First, a really good thing to do is get some magazines that have celebrities on the red carpet. The women on the red carpet have some amazing updos that you can go off of.... lemme find a site for you...This one... Brittany Murphy's is gorgeous to me, but all of them are beautiful.....http://beauty.about.com/od/prom/ss/prom1_7.htmOn this one, I like Halle Berry and Drew Barrymores....http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=65This has a slideshow you can flip through and has the best hairstyles, to me....http://beauty.ivillage.com/slideshow...83,00.htmlGood luck sweetie. You are gonna look gorgeous no matter what. Just have fun!