lets just say that living in a military community its nice to see a man with a bit of hair. Nothing wrong with having long wavy hair on a guy as long as it is kept clean ( hate to see a guy with greasy hair, looks as though they dont have time to take care of them selves)Now you did not day what age you are but let hope your not the typical Cato Calin...lolMen who are not more high maitence than me are great but if you have to spend more time in the mirror doing your hair, then its definately not the right style for you.Back in a pony tail is sporty and can be polished and sexy with a suit.Long spikes or the wild gelled look are great too if your not over gelled that whole still look is just out..